Monday, February 13, 2012

love is not gagging when I urp!

What is love? True love?? There are millions of flowery hallmark cards that say such beautiful and sappy things that just aren't me. I mean, they obviously have great sentiment or they wouldn't be a billion dollar industry, but lets get real for a minute, love is more than that. I would like to see a hallmark card that tells it the way it is.

Love is holding my hair back when I puke and not gagging.
Love is seeing me all evening in my pj's with wet hair slicked back and no make-up and still thinking I'm beautiful.
Love is an exclamation of awe at the "beautiful purple" placenta I have just delivered post baby.
Love is getting up at night and feeding the baby because even though I'm not working, I'm exhausted.
Love is going to Wal-mart for something I forgot after you've had a long day at work.
Love is helping to clean up kid puke, while gagging, while I clean up pukey kids.
Love is working hard and earning a living to keep our family going.
Love is dealing with my moods and still sticking around.
Love is eating hamburger helper when we're first married and saying I'm a good cook.
Love is kissing me goodnight and telling me you love me.
Love is supporting me in everything I do, even if I fail.
Love is telling me you think I'm the most beautiful woman in the world even though I know I'm not.
Love is accepting my penchant for picking up stray pets.
Love is not being too mad after I almost drove us off a mountain.
Love is mowing the lawn after a long day at work.
Love is cleaning up the kitchen and mopping so I don't have to.
Love is teasing me out of a bad mood.
Love is stopping the car in a dangerous place so I can get a fabulous pic or visit an abandoned home.
Love is letting me go and do my thing and knowing I will be back soon.
Love is not getting mad at me when I had my mid 30's mid-life crisis.
Love is accepting all the old junk I bring into the house that is a treasure to me.
Love is ducking and laughing when I throw a book at you out of anger.
Love is the way you spend time with the girls.
Love is watching Criminal Minds every night because I want to, even though you've seen them 300 times.
Love is telling me I look good in a bathing suit. Now thats true love, my friend.
Love is talking to the cats even though you don't particularly like cats.

Love is so many little things in daily life that we lose sight of. Its often the tiniest thing that means the most...
I love my husband for always being there for me, for always trying to understand me, for always supporting me and taking my side when things go south. I love him for all the above mentioned things and more. I couldn't ask for a better man...


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